My husband is 67 years old, a successful multimillionaire businessman whose demanding schedule keeps him constantly occupied. Despite his incredible achievements, he’s self-aware enough to recognize the challenges his lifestyle creates in our marriage. Over the years, he’s often told me that he values my happiness above all else and would do whatever it takes to make sure I feel fulfilled, even when he can’t always be present.
It was during one of our candid conversations about intimacy and the realities of his busy life that he proposed an unconventional solution. “I want you to feel desired and satisfied,” he said, looking at me with a mix of love and practicality. At first, I was taken aback by his suggestion. He wanted to arrange for other men to visit me when he was away, ensuring my needs were met without guilt or secrecy.
The idea felt surreal, but his calm confidence in the arrangement and his unwavering love for me made it easier to consider. Over time, this became a unique part of our relationship. What surprised me even more was his request: he wanted me to record these encounters and share the videos with him later. He said it allowed him to feel closer to me, even when work kept him physically distant.
What started as an unconventional solution has, in an odd way, brought us closer together. Our openness, trust, and shared understanding have strengthened the foundation of our marriage in ways I never imagined. While this arrangement might not work for everyone, it’s something that has deepened our connection and reminded me of how much he values my happiness.
Ours may not be a traditional love story, but it’s one built on honesty, communication, and a willingness to embrace what works for us.