{"id":13251,"date":"2024-11-09T22:28:07","date_gmt":"2024-11-09T22:28:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=13251"},"modified":"2024-11-09T22:28:07","modified_gmt":"2024-11-09T22:28:07","slug":"when-love-feels-like-a-routine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=13251","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;When Love Feels Like a Routine&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13252\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Collect-moments-not-things.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Collect-moments-not-things.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Collect-moments-not-things-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Collect-moments-not-things-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Collect-moments-not-things-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Collect-moments-not-things-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Lately, I can\u2019t shake the feeling that David and I are living parallel lives rather than sharing one. 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