{"id":1397,"date":"2024-03-02T19:11:16","date_gmt":"2024-03-02T19:11:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=1397"},"modified":"2024-03-02T19:11:16","modified_gmt":"2024-03-02T19:11:16","slug":"my-neighbor-is-gaslighting-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=1397","title":{"rendered":"My neighbor is gaslighting me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I have a really strange neighbor. She\u2019s unamicably divorced with two kids and really overfamiliar. Told me recently that she got a Brazilian wax for the first time, which I gather is potentially flirting with me but also quite forward and strange (although she is objectively a MILF).<\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>I\u2019m renting a townhouse and am pretty hands-off with the front yard because a.) I\u2019m busy and b.) I have no idea how to garden.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s a few rose bushes along our shared fence line, and they started to get really out of hand and would cut me when I try to get into the door. So I bought some random garden implement from the hardware store and \u201cpruned them\u201d (idk the correct way to do it but the bush is smaller than before so job done).<\/p>\n<p>So I got home from work and neighbor was standing by the fence doing her yard work, and told me with a big smile that she pruned my rose bushes for me.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m like\u2026 thank you\u2026 Then later that night I realized\u2026 why the fuck am I thanking her for pruning the rose bushes that I fucking pruned? Why is she gaslighting me?<\/p>\n<p>Open to theories.<\/p>\n<p>Edit: Ok y\u2019all have convinced me to shoot my shot and ask her out. If it backfires I\u2019m gonna kill each and every one of you<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1398\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/351195205_792321015857847_4648234755560909567_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"864\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/351195205_792321015857847_4648234755560909567_n.jpg 864w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/351195205_792321015857847_4648234755560909567_n-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/351195205_792321015857847_4648234755560909567_n-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/351195205_792321015857847_4648234755560909567_n-768x960.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 864px) 100vw, 864px\" \/><\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a really strange neighbor. She\u2019s unamicably divorced with two kids and really overfamiliar. Told me recently that she got a Brazilian wax for the first&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1399,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1397"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1397\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1400,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1397\/revisions\/1400"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1399"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}