{"id":1468,"date":"2024-03-04T08:22:56","date_gmt":"2024-03-04T08:22:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=1468"},"modified":"2024-03-04T08:22:56","modified_gmt":"2024-03-04T08:22:56","slug":"i-hooked-up-with-my-colleague-in-a-long-term-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=1468","title":{"rendered":"I hooked up with my colleague in a long term relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I (45F) work with a guy, Ben (51<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1469\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/1585683906_julia-ann-porn-pics4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"854\" height=\"1233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/1585683906_julia-ann-porn-pics4.jpg 854w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/1585683906_julia-ann-porn-pics4-208x300.jpg 208w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/1585683906_julia-ann-porn-pics4-709x1024.jpg 709w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/1585683906_julia-ann-porn-pics4-768x1109.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 854px) 100vw, 854px\" \/>F), and have for the past few months. Our work relationship has always been a bit odd; it started with just some flirty banter here and there, then he\u2019d say things like \u2018you\u2019re definitely the most beautiful girl in the office\u2019, etc. I think he\u2019s an attractive guy, and we get along really well but i\u2019ve known from the start that he\u2019s had a girlfriend. We\u2019ve gone out a couple of times with other colleagues for drinks, and i\u2019ve even met his girlfriend.<\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>We had a staff party a few months ago, and we were both very drunk, and he basically confessed to me how he really likes me and if he didn\u2019t have a girlfriend, he\u2019d be with me. I was in a relationship at this point so I said basically the same thing, and we moved on. It\u2019s always stuck with me, and genuinely if he wasn\u2019t in a relationship it would be great, but i\u2019ve never thought to go any further than flirting.<\/p>\n<p>This past weekend, a big group of work people went out and Ben was there. Ben and I were drunk and had a heart to heart in a club about how he thinks about me a lot and wishes he was single, I agreed and told him i liked him but obviously we couldn\u2019t do anything.<\/p>\n<p>Long story short, we all got very drunk, a few of us went back to Bens house to chill, and Ben and I ended up in the bathroom making out and with me giving him a BJ. It was fun I won\u2019t lie, but as soon as it happened I had to call a cab to go home because i felt so horrible. Not only have I met his girlfriend (who he\u2019s been with for around 1-2 years), she was asleep in the room next door. I\u2019ve never ever thought i\u2019d be the kind of girl to do this to another woman, and I have no clue where to go from here. I have to go back to work tomorrow and see Ben, so I guess we\u2019ll see what happens. We both agreed to keep it between us, but i feel absolutely disgusting. This was basically just a rant i apologise.<\/p>\n<p>TLDR; hooked up with my coworker whose girlfriend i\u2019ve met while she was asleep in the next room, and feeling extremely horrible about it (as i should).<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I (45F) work with a guy, Ben (51F), and have for the past few months. 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