{"id":16396,"date":"2025-01-07T18:58:42","date_gmt":"2025-01-07T18:58:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=16396"},"modified":"2025-01-07T18:58:42","modified_gmt":"2025-01-07T18:58:42","slug":"am-i-still-me-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=16396","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Am I Still Me?&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16397\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/the-thrilsk.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/the-thrilsk.png 1080w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/the-thrilsk-240x300.png 240w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/the-thrilsk-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/the-thrilsk-768x960.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Hey, I\u2019m married, but the past few months have been tough\u2014really tough. My husband and I still care about each other, but something feels different, like a piece of our connection has gone missing. The way he used to light up when I walked into a room, or the little compliments that would make me smile, just aren\u2019t there anymore. I don\u2019t need grand gestures, but I miss feeling noticed, appreciated, and seen for the person I am.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been questioning myself lately in ways I never thought I would. Am I still attractive? Do I still have that charm that once made me stand out? Or have I just become part of the routine, blending into the background of our busy lives? These thoughts keep creeping in, and they\u2019ve started to chip away at my confidence.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to lose myself in this feeling of invisibility. I want to know if I\u2019m still vibrant and captivating\u2014if the spark that made me who I am hasn\u2019t disappeared entirely. Sometimes, it feels like I\u2019m grasping for a part of me that\u2019s been buried under years of marriage, work, and responsibilities.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019d love to hear an outside perspective\u2014something to help me see myself the way others might. Am I still someone worth noticing? I hope so. Deep down, I believe that I am, but I could really use a little reminder to help me find that version of myself again.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, I\u2019m married, but the past few months have been tough\u2014really tough. My husband and I still care about each other, but something feels different, like a&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16396","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16396","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16396"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16396\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16398,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16396\/revisions\/16398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16396"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16396"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16396"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}