{"id":16654,"date":"2025-01-12T15:45:10","date_gmt":"2025-01-12T15:45:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=16654"},"modified":"2025-01-12T15:45:10","modified_gmt":"2025-01-12T15:45:10","slug":"still-worth-noticing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=16654","title":{"rendered":"Still Worth Noticing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-16655\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Feeling-lucky-today.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1350\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Feeling-lucky-today.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Feeling-lucky-today-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Feeling-lucky-today-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Feeling-lucky-today-768x960.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>Hey there! My marriage has been going through a bit of a rough patch lately, and honestly, I\u2019m starting to feel invisible. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t love my partner or that we\u2019re completely disconnected\u2014it\u2019s just that something feels\u2026 off. The little things that once made me feel special and appreciated have quietly disappeared. Compliments are rare, conversations feel routine, and the spark we used to share feels like it\u2019s flickering instead of burning brightly.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve always believed that relationships need nurturing, but right now, it feels one-sided. I try to put in effort\u2014whether it\u2019s dressing up, planning something fun, or simply being present\u2014but I\u2019m not sure it\u2019s even being noticed. And that hurts. I miss feeling like I\u2019m seen, not just as a partner or someone who shares responsibilities, but as a person who\u2019s desirable and worth cherishing.<\/p>\n<p>I know I shouldn\u2019t rely on someone else to validate my worth, but let\u2019s be honest\u2014sometimes we all need reassurance. We all want to feel wanted, admired, and loved. I guess that\u2019s what I\u2019m searching for right now\u2014a reminder that I\u2019m still captivating, still someone worth paying attention to, and still worthy of being appreciated.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe this is a sign that I need to find that confidence within myself again, but I can\u2019t deny that a little outside encouragement would go a long way. I just want to feel like I matter\u2014not just as a spouse, but as me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey there! My marriage has been going through a bit of a rough patch lately, and honestly, I\u2019m starting to feel invisible. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16654","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16654","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=16654"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16654\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16657,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16654\/revisions\/16657"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=16654"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=16654"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=16654"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}