{"id":2070,"date":"2024-03-17T13:01:29","date_gmt":"2024-03-17T13:01:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=2070"},"modified":"2024-03-17T13:01:29","modified_gmt":"2024-03-17T13:01:29","slug":"after-the-child-is-born-i-will-separate-from-my-husband-i-have-decided-this-after-much-suffering-because","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=2070","title":{"rendered":"After the child is born, I will separate from my husband. I have decided this after much suffering because&#8230;!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After the child is born, I will separate from my husband. I have decided this after much suffering because \u2013 Hello, I am Fatmirja, please post this as soon as possible because I really need advice since I no longer have the freedom to speak. Take note of the intimate number 1 after you finish reading. Anyway, starting my story, I am from Kosovo but have lived abroad for years. I got married a year ago to a teacher or as we call them. Well, I got married, but I am the type who listens more than I speak, and every time I would listen and speak little. Whenever the question arose about what&#8217;s wrong, I would say nothing, I&#8217;m fine, but why don&#8217;t you speak? I would say because I&#8217;m listening to the topic you&#8217;re talking about; I don&#8217;t know the people to comment on it. That&#8217;s how fights would start. Well, that day passed, and I always hoped things would get better. Our marriage continued with ups and downs, but during this time, from our marriage until today, I have heard so many offensive words like I&#8217;ve never heard in my entire life. I&#8217;ve endured for months and had no one to talk to because my parents trust him so much that sometimes when I start to speak, they don&#8217;t believe a word I say. Believe me, I don&#8217;t remember a moment when if I was a bit serious in my expression, I didn&#8217;t receive an offense from him. I knew there was no way out, and I decided again to stay in this place. Now, I am pregnant and I haven&#8217;t seen anyone treat a pregnant woman in the worst possible way, considering that pregnant women have their own problems. I truly loved him endlessly and endured everything, not just words but even more. But now, I have decided that I can&#8217;t endure this life anymore. One year of suffering, insults, and everything bad has become too much for me. I have decided that I want to leave this man and this place. I will raise the child alone if God has given it to me as a gift; I will devote my life to this. Now judge me, but believe me, I no longer have the strength to endure anymore. Sorry for the long story, I hope to receive some advice.<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2071\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/14.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"670\" height=\"822\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/14.png 670w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/14-245x300.png 245w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\" \/><\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>After the child is born, I will separate from my husband. I have decided this after much suffering because \u2013 Hello, I am Angela, please post this as soon as possible because I really need advice since I no longer have the freedom to speak. Take note of the intimate number 1 after you finish reading. Anyway, starting my story, I am from Italy but have lived abroad for years. I got married a year ago to a teacher or as we call them. Well, I got married, but I am the type who listens more than I speak, and every time I would listen and speak little. Whenever the question arose about what&#8217;s wrong, I would say nothing, I&#8217;m fine, but why don&#8217;t you speak? I would say because I&#8217;m listening to the topic you&#8217;re talking about; I don&#8217;t know the people to comment on it. That&#8217;s how fights would start. Well, that day passed, and I always hoped things would get better. Our marriage continued with ups and downs, but during this time, from our marriage until today, I have heard so many offensive words like I&#8217;ve never heard in my entire life. I&#8217;ve endured for months and had no one to talk to because my parents trust him so much that sometimes when I start to speak, they don&#8217;t believe a word I say. Believe me, I don&#8217;t remember a moment when if I was a bit serious in my expression, I didn&#8217;t receive an offense from him. I knew there was no way out, and I decided again to stay in this place. Now, I am pregnant and I haven&#8217;t seen anyone treat a pregnant woman in the worst possible way, considering that pregnant women have their own problems. I truly loved him endlessly and endured everything, not just words but even more. But now, I have decided that I can&#8217;t endure this life anymore. One year of suffering, insults, and everything bad has become too much for me. I have decided that I want to leave this man and this place. I will raise the child alone if God has given it to me as a gift; I will devote my life to this. Now judge me, but believe me, I no longer have the strength to endure anymore. Sorry for the long story, I hope to receive some advice.<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After the child is born, I will separate from my husband. 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