{"id":2399,"date":"2024-03-24T12:35:59","date_gmt":"2024-03-24T12:35:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=2399"},"modified":"2024-03-24T12:35:59","modified_gmt":"2024-03-24T12:35:59","slug":"i-told-him-either-keep-his-wife-or-me-i-called-his-wife-and-told-her-that-i-am-with-her-husband-and","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=2399","title":{"rendered":"I told him either keep his wife or me, I called his wife and told her that I am with her husband and&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-2400\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/2-9.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"656\" height=\"818\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/2-9.png 656w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/2-9-241x300.png 241w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 656px) 100vw, 656px\" \/><\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>&#8220;I told him to choose between his wife and me. I called his wife and told her that I am with her husband and&#8230; -Hello! I wanted to share with you a story of mine that is consuming my thoughts. I can never believe that my life has turned out this way, as I am unable to find a solution to anything. All I can do is cry and cry, and that&#8217;s all I do. I have no strength left for anything else. Two years ago, I had a personal family issue, and I didn&#8217;t know where I was. By chance, I met someone who begged me for a coffee. After a long time, I had coffee and it felt like someone was protecting me, giving me courage, and staying close to me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Every day he wrote to me about how I was, I had never seen that person with such eyes, with which I could create something, or feel, or establish a connection. Time passed, feelings arose, but I was grounded even though my heart couldn\u2019t be stopped. He fell in love despite having a family. Every day I pushed him away crying, telling him to go home because I couldn\u2019t take it anymore and I was going crazy. I only saw him crying saying he couldn&#8217;t do it anymore, he couldn\u2019t stay without me, he had fallen in love. I made up all kinds of things and invented stories to push him away but it was impossible!<\/p>\n<p>PROMOTED CONTENT<\/p>\n<p>Over a year and a half, even though I loved him so much, I left crying, my mind didn\u2019t want to be with him. I was conscious and terribly wrong, his words were \u201cI can\u2019t speak prematurely because I will come out as a fool but know that I love you very much and want to be with you all my life!\u201d For a year and a half, he didn\u2019t let me meet anyone or have coffee with anyone. I felt like I was going crazy and to push him away I needed to seek help knowing it would hurt but it would end with pain. That night a debate ensued and I told him, \u201clisten, I will call your wife and leave me alone or I will kill myself.\u201d He continued not caring about what I said, \u201cgo ahead.\u201d The next day I call her and ask her, \u201cdo you know who your husband is and where he is? Because he is stalking me because he loves you and keeps you there. I can\u2019t find peace from him,\u201d she said okay I will handle it. I don\u2019t know what I did out of anger I didn\u2019t understand but I took the phone. She was screaming, crying endlessly wanting her daughter at home, bring my daughter home! She made a scandal telling my family members she wants her daughter because your child drove my wife away. A terrible situation! She told me after May 1st she would only take her because she is 8 years old but swore she hadn\u2019t touched her for a year and a half, every day because of the daughter. She took her and came to meet me but every day was arguments and fights, I wanted my life, my children, he wouldn\u2019t accept the fact of me getting engaged or married, he was going mad.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe will have children,\u201d he said when the time comes, \u201cI would be only his!\u201d A guy got to know me through messages and I told him in March it&#8217;s 2 years together, either keep her or me, I will continue. That drove him mad! Why had I had coffee with him, why had I betrayed him? That night he broke down. He asked where he is, how he is, and I told him, he sent a request on Instagram and wrote to him. I could never understand him, never. The messages that night were caught by his wife and she left the house again for almost 2 months! He told me he\u2019s not taking me back, he has hired a lawyer, fought and argued with me for having coffee with someone else, and endlessly threatened.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou destroyed me, I will destroy you!\u201d The filthiest words, endless insults! That day the number was blocked. I thought he was upset because he was crying and I got worried! I write to him on WhatsApp at night. In the morning, he calls me with screams on the other side. I said I was sleeping, he said, \u201cif we are separated why do you write to me?\u201d I got worried and said, \u201cwhen did we break up?\u201d The call was on speaker and his wife was listening. I was trembling and shaking all over from disappointment, for a moment I thought my heart stopped! I couldn\u2019t believe it and saw myself in the mirror, how can a person hurt me like this when he swears on his only daughter that I was his love! How is it possible?!<\/p>\n<p>Shortly after, his mother calls me saying, \u201cwhat do you want now, my son has his wife and star, it\u2019s over with you, he fooled your mind for 2 years!\u201d I still can\u2019t believe I kept my sanity, how can a mother be like this? I never asked him to leave her, never said it&#8217;s her or me, at least leave me because you are disgracing me. I heard what he said, \u201cyour time is up, I have a wife!\u201d No one in my family was left without being told and written on social media that I forcefully want a husband and am ruining a family. I have nothing left but to kill myself because I can\u2019t take revenge, it hurts my heart! I know how that evil man deserves to be unmasked but still, I will be the one who loses. Please give me some advice because I am going through a depressive state. 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