{"id":3100,"date":"2024-04-09T19:56:38","date_gmt":"2024-04-09T19:56:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=3100"},"modified":"2024-04-09T19:56:38","modified_gmt":"2024-04-09T19:56:38","slug":"my-husband-wanted-to-cheat-and-i-cant-get-over-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=3100","title":{"rendered":"My husband wanted to cheat and I can&#8217;t get over it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3101\" src=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/12-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"655\" height=\"819\" srcset=\"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/12-1.png 655w, https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/12-1-240x300.png 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 655px) 100vw, 655px\" \/><\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>We have been together 8 years. Have two young children together. We have had ups and downs in our relationship, especially since our first was born. Since having kids, I don&#8217;t want to have sex as much as I used to. Between taking care of the kids, and breastfeeding, it feels like everyone (including my husband) needs so many things from me and that doesn&#8217;t leave me feeling in the mood at the end of the day.<\/p>\n<p>So a year and a half ago, I caught my husband texting a girl from work. They had been texting for months and I had no clue. Like, how was your day, what are you up to kind of texts. I got mad. He said he wouldn&#8217;t talk to her again. He was sorry, but didn&#8217;t understand why I wasn&#8217;t okay with it.<\/p>\n<p>Now, fast forward to recently, on new year&#8217;s eve, I randomly check his phone because he&#8217;s been acting really distant and will hardly talk to me. And I discover he&#8217;s been texting this same girl, and trying to meet up with her. I confronted him. He basically was like yeah well its your fault because you don&#8217;t want to have sex with me. He was drunk, said some mean things, I decided I would leave him.<\/p>\n<p>The next day he is crying, apologizing, saying he only wants me. I feel like I got suckered back in. Because I keep going back and forth in my head, how could he attempt to meet up with someone, and now I&#8217;m paranoid all the time that he will cheat on me and I don&#8217;t even know why I&#8217;m giving him another chance because I don&#8217;t think he deserves me.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;m looking for, advice maybe? We have a couples therapy session next week. I just keep going back and forth feeling mad and then wanting to forgive him. And feeling like I &#8220;have&#8221; to have more sex with him now or else this will happen again. I don&#8217;t know what to think or do.<\/p>\n<p>Edit: thanks so much for those who are responding with support. I feel like my feelings are being validated which they haven&#8217;t been up to this point.<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We have been together 8 years. Have two young children together. We have had ups and downs in our relationship, especially since our first was born. 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