{"id":603,"date":"2024-02-14T23:11:12","date_gmt":"2024-02-14T23:11:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=603"},"modified":"2024-02-14T23:11:12","modified_gmt":"2024-02-14T23:11:12","slug":"dad-punishes-daughter-by-making-her-shave-her-head-without-talking-to-mom-and-doesnt-even-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/findpath.xyz\/?p=603","title":{"rendered":"Dad Punishes Daughter By Making Her Shave Her Head Without Talking To Mom And Doesn\u2019t Even Care"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who we are, we are going to make mistakes in life. Some of them are going to be rather small but others are large and they may sometimes haunt us for many years to come. When we make those problems as children, we sometimes have to face the wrath of our parents who need to decide how to best punish us so that we learn our lesson. One father is making waves online after he forced his daughter to shave her head completely bald when she was caught bullying another student who lost her hair from chemotherapy.<\/p><div class=\"311fe198f191a864c1efcdfa9efedfdf\" data-index=\"3\" style=\"float: none; margin:0px 0 0px 0; text-align:center;\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1782571\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n\n<\/div>\n\n<p>This is probably the boldest parenting move of the century and I have to say, it is rather shocking when you stop to think about it. The father is actually getting a lot of heat for the punishment but he really doesn\u2019t care what other people think. He feels as if it is a reasonable consequence for what she did and he isn\u2019t willing to back down. According to his estimation, it is the best way to teach his daughter a lesson that she will never forget.<\/p>\n<p>The issue began when he caught wind of his 16-year-old daughter getting in trouble for making fun of a student who had lost her hair because of chemotherapy.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-3\"><\/div>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-16284\" src=\"https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/1-29.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 652px) 100vw, 652px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/1-29.jpg 652w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/1-29-196x300.jpg 196w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/1-29-327x502.jpg 327w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/1-29-213x327.jpg 213w\" alt=\"\" width=\"652\" height=\"1000\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A post was put on social media but it has been deleted since that time. The father explained his actions and the fact that he had full custody of his daughter. When she made fun of that other girl and he learned about it, he was furious that she would do it. She had even gone so far as to pull off her wig!<\/p>\n<p>The dad said that the daughter is dating the other girl\u2019s ex-boyfriend and this resulted in even more drama.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey were having an argument in class about stupid teenage gossip regarding my daughter\u2019s boyfriend. At some point the other girl mentioned how my daughter\u2019s boyfriend was just using her for sex (this was actually a big shock to me as I had no idea she was sexually active) and called my daughter a slut. That\u2019s what escalated the situation and resulted in the wig incident. Supposedly they have been arguing in class ever since my daughter started dating the guy in question. Basically just stupid teenage \u2018he said she said\u2019 nonsense.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When you realize that there is actually something more to the story, you begin to realize why she may have done it but it still doesn\u2019t excuse her behavior.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cNot how I\u2019ve raised my daughter to treat people and it truly disgusted me to hear how she acted from her deputy principle,\u201d he wrote. \u201cShe showed no remorse. She tried to excuse her behavior by saying the girl in question deserved it. Again, I don\u2019t care what she said, that behavior is inexcusable.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Talking with his daughter really didn\u2019t get very far so he came up with two punishments. She can either give up her technology or she could shave her head completely bald.<\/p>\n<p>Like any teenager, she decided not to give up her technology and opted to have her head shaved. It doesn\u2019t mean, however, that she was happy about it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-16285\" src=\"https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/2-27.jpg\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 715px) 100vw, 715px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/2-27.jpg 715w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/2-27-300x209.jpg 300w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/2-27-667x465.jpg 667w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/2-27-327x228.jpg 327w, https:\/\/innerstrength.zone\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/2-27-213x148.jpg 213w\" alt=\"\" width=\"715\" height=\"498\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Both his daughter and his ex-wife were upset about the punishment. The father, however, still stood his ground. \u201cShe will go to the hairdresser and get a cue ball haircut. As in, a completely shaved head, as bald as the hairdresser can do,\u201d he wrote. \u201cNo wig. She has to go to school like that until it grows back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Many people think that the father went too far and it is even going to make people bully his daughter. He feels that is exactly the right reason why he should have done it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI came up with the punishment because I thought my daughter had an extreme lack of empathy for the girl she bullied,\u201d he says. It is also a personal issue for him because his mother died of breast cancer when he was young.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy daughter knows this and that is what really disgusted me with her behavior,\u201d he says. \u201cIt demonstrated a complete and utter lack of empathy. I hoped that her going to school bald and walking a mile in the other girl\u2019s shoes would teach her a lesson.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some people felt as if it was a very harsh punishment.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour daughter sucks for bullying that girl, obviously. But you went too far with this punishment,\u201d one person wrote in the comments.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour daughter is a bully because you are a bully,\u201d someone else added. \u201cI seriously doubt this is the first time you used abuse and humiliation to \u2018teach her a lesson.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And another person wasn\u2019t afraid to tell it like it is, \u201cThere\u2019s a term for what you did. It\u2019s called child abuse,\u201d the person wrote. \u201cTaking away her electronics would have been an appropriate punishment. Grounding her would have been an appropriate punishment. Disrespecting her right to bodily autonomy and humiliating her is not an appropriate punishment. She\u2019s unlikely to learn from it and if anything it risks perpetuating a cycle of bullying.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Other people said it was just what she needed.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe punishment was absolutely harsh, probably harsher than I would have done in your place (I can\u2019t say for certain, I\u2019m not a parent). But she will see what kind of impact actions like hers have on the victim and that will teach her a very important lesson. If teaching her that lesson makes you the (expletive), perhaps the world needs a few more (expletives),\u201d the person wrote.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEveryone on here obviously has no clue how (expletive) kids can be,\u201d another person added. \u201cI support your decision completely. You\u2019re her parent so you have every right to do this, it\u2019s not abusive, it\u2019s real life. If she\u2019s comfortable attacking someone for something they have no choice over she needs to see how it feels. Kids don\u2019t learn from compassion as much as we want them to, I\u2019m not saying have no compassion but this isn\u2019t a situation where sitting them down and explaining the issue will suddenly make them a better person. And how is this punishment cruel or abusive\u2026 guess what\u2026 hair grows back, crazy I know, unlike the person she humiliated. Everyone here needs to get some perspective.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThis is an appropriate punishment for that behavior that will hopefully result in one child being compassionate and thinking empathetically before they start bullying people,\u201d added someone else.<\/p>\n<p>The father really doesn\u2019t care if people agree with his methods or not.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs far as the backlash, I\u2019ll be honest and say it hasn\u2019t changed my opinion,\u201d he explains. \u201cMost of the comments called it abuse. I really can\u2019t take that seriously, it\u2019s just a haircut and her hair will grow back.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He adds that although he learned that he\u2019s \u201cclearly the minority in that subreddit, (\u2026) I really didn\u2019t anticipate that level of vitriol. I can\u2019t complain though since the entire point of that subreddit is to judge other people, so I don\u2019t really mind.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The daughter is understandably upset with her father but she still is not showing remorse for her actions. She also hasn\u2019t apologized.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIf she shows genuine remorse I\u2019d get her a temporary wig of some kind,\u201d he continues, \u201cbut as I say she hasn\u2019t done that yet.\u201d<\/p>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It doesn\u2019t matter who we are, we are going to make mistakes in life. 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