There’s something uniquely comforting about gathering with my single friends for our regular movie nights. It’s become a tradition—a Friday evening where we can all escape the stress of work, dating (or lack thereof), and the sometimes overwhelming expectations of life. It’s simple: a cozy living room, a few bottles of wine, some popcorn, and a lineup of our favorite films. No elaborate plans or reservations needed—just the company of good friends who understand the ups and downs of single life.
Last Friday, we met at my place. As the sun began to set, the girls started trickling in, each carrying snacks, drinks, or dessert. We kicked off the night with a rom-com, laughing as we spotted all the unrealistic portrayals of love, the kind that never really happens in real life. We joked about the unattainable standards these movies set, but deep down, we all knew we still held on to some hope of finding that fairy tale ending—just in our own way, on our own timeline.
As the night wore on, our conversations drifted from the movie to our own lives. Emily, who had recently gotten out of a relationship, shared how liberating it felt to rediscover herself after years of compromising for someone else. Claire, ever the free spirit, talked about her upcoming solo trip to Bali. I admired her confidence, though traveling alone still intimidated me sometimes. I shared a story about my last trip and how meeting new people on the road made me feel alive again.
What I love most about these movie nights isn’t just the entertainment or the food, though both are pretty great. It’s the chance to connect with women who get me—who understand what it’s like to be single in a world that often feels like it’s designed for couples. We laugh, we cry, and we support each other in ways that feel authentic and real. Sure, we’re single, but we have each other. That’s more than enough for now.