Don’t get me wrong—I’m married to an incredible man who understands the importance of keeping things lively. We both know that a little playfulness is a healthy ingredient in our relationship. It’s not about being unfaithful or stepping over any lines; it’s about keeping that element of fun alive, even after years together. That’s why today, I decided to indulge in a harmless little prank—a playful flirtation with a stranger at the grocery store.

As I strolled through the produce aisle, I spotted a man browsing the fruits and vegetables with a concentrated look on his face. Suddenly, an idea popped into my mind. I walked up to him with a bright smile and, with the most charming tone I could muster, asked, “Excuse me, could you help me pick out the perfect avocado?”

He looked up, surprised but clearly flattered. His eyes softened, and a smile spread across his face. Without hesitation, he started explaining the secret to finding the perfect avocado—something about firmness and stem color. I listened intently, nodding along as if I were genuinely clueless. The way his face lit up, you’d have thought he was solving the world’s greatest mystery!

We chatted for a few moments, both of us laughing about our mutual love for guacamole and the sometimes tricky art of picking the right avocado. I could see him relax, and there was a subtle joy in the exchange, a mutual understanding that this was a moment outside of the usual daily routine. I thanked him with a smile, wished him a good day, and continued my shopping, feeling a little lighter and more playful myself.

When I got home, I told my husband all about it, and he burst out laughing. “Well, did he pick a good one?” he asked, teasing me. I knew he understood. A little bit of innocent flirting—just a tiny gamble—can sometimes refresh the air in our home. It’s about reminding ourselves that we still have that spark, that we are still vibrant and fun, even if life sometimes feels routine. And, of course, the avocado was perfect!