My(48M)husband and I(46F)have been married for one year, together for three. The first time I met my husband’s cousin, who I’ll call ‘Ryan’(25M), was at a family reunion a few weeks after my wedding. I barely talked to him, but his eyes were on me the whole night.

During dinner, I had got up to use the bathroom and Ryan followed me. Before I could close the bathroom door, Ryan had his hands on my hips and was talking to me in a sexual way. I kept telling him that I wasn’t interested and was happily married, but he wouldn’t stop. It got so bad that I screamed for my husband to come help.

Luckily, my husband was able to save me before Ryan did anything to me. The night ended with my husband and Ryan in a huge argument that led us to go home early. Ryan has apologized for that incident; I still haven’t gotten over it though.

Now onto the issue, my husband informed me a few weeks ago that his family was going to be staying at our house for a week to visit. I didn’t have a problem with it until I heard that Ryan was also coming. My husband told me that he also didn’t want Ryan to come, but his aunt and uncle pleaded for Ryan to be there. It made my husband feel bad because he didn’t wanna be a let down. We argued for many days about this and I soon gave in just to stop the fights.

So now my husband’s family are in our house. There hasn’t been an issue so far, but that doesn’t stop me from being nervous. He continues to look at me and it makes me uncomfortable. He even walked in on my husband and I getting intimate yesterday. I feel so uncomfortable with him around, but I can’t just kick him out because he hasn’t done anything. What should I do?