Don’t get me wrong—I’m married to an incredible man, and one of the things I love most about our relationship is the playful energy we share. We’ve always believed that laughter and a little bit of harmless mischief can keep things fresh and exciting. We know how to joke around, tease each other, and throw in a few pranks here and there. It’s our way of keeping the spark alive, and we’ve always made space for these little moments in our marriage.

Today, I decided to have a bit of fun while out running errands. I was at the grocery store, strolling through the produce section, when I saw a man who seemed to be struggling to pick out the perfect avocado. It was too good of an opportunity to pass up. With a confident smile, I walked over and asked him for a little “expert advice” on which avocado to choose. His face lit up immediately, clearly flattered by the attention, and he enthusiastically launched into his best tips for selecting the ripest one. We laughed together as he squeezed, poked, and analyzed each avocado, giving me a quick tutorial on finding the perfect texture.

There was a moment of light flirtation, the kind that feels innocent yet exhilarating. I knew I wasn’t crossing any lines—just having a little fun, enjoying the thrill of engaging with a stranger who had no idea that my heart already belonged to someone else. After thanking him with a wink and a smile, I left the store, feeling a little more energized, a little more alive.

When I got home, I couldn’t help but share the story with my husband. He laughed, shaking his head at my boldness, but I could tell he appreciated the playful side of me that he’s always loved. We know that moments like these don’t threaten what we have—they enhance it. It’s about adding a little sparkle to the everyday, about remembering that just because we’re married doesn’t mean the fun has to stop.

Sometimes, a little harmless flirting isn’t about finding someone else—it’s about rediscovering ourselves and bringing that energy back home. In a long-term relationship, it’s easy to fall into a routine, but it’s these small, unexpected adventures that keep things exciting. A little gambling with playful flirting, a spark of mischief—it refreshes our “family” air and reminds us that life, and love, is meant to be fun.