Hi there! Lately, things at home have felt a little distant, and it’s been weighing on me more than I care to admit. My partner and I used to have this unspoken connection—a warmth that didn’t need words. But recently, it feels like that connection has grown quiet, leaving a space that I don’t know how to fill.

It’s hard not to let that space turn inward. I catch myself wondering, “Am I not enough?” Have I changed too much, or have we both just grown so used to each other that the spark we once shared has dimmed? I don’t think anyone enters a relationship expecting to feel this way, but here I am, questioning my own worth in the silence of our days.

I miss the way I used to feel when I walked into a room—the confidence of knowing I was noticed and appreciated, not just for how I looked but for who I am. Somewhere along the way, that assurance has slipped away, leaving behind a nagging doubt I can’t seem to shake.

I know life has a way of pulling us in a million directions, and maybe it’s not fair to expect the same energy we had in the beginning. But I can’t help but yearn for a little reminder—a word, a look, a touch—that says, “You’re still incredible. You’re still the one.”

More than anything, I just want to feel seen again. I want to know that I still have what it takes to captivate, to inspire, to be someone’s first choice. Maybe the change has to start within me, but it would mean the world to have someone reflect back the person I’m trying so hard to rediscover. Sometimes, all it takes is a little boost to feel truly alive again.