I’ve been married for a while now. In the beginning, everything felt fresh and exciting—every glance, every touch, every moment together felt like it mattered. I remember how my partner used to look at me, like I was the most beautiful thing in the world. There was laughter, affection, and that special energy that made me feel alive. But recently, it feels like I’ve started to fade, not just in the relationship but in my own sense of self.

It’s hard to put into words, but it’s like I’ve become invisible. The compliments have stopped, the meaningful conversations have dwindled, and the spark that used to light up our days feels like it’s barely flickering. I miss the way my partner’s eyes used to light up when I walked into the room, the way they’d notice the smallest things about me—a new dress, the way my hair fell, or even just the way I smiled.

Now, it feels like I’m just… there. Like I’ve become part of the furniture, something familiar and comfortable, but no longer captivating. And it’s not just about my partner—it’s about me, too. I look in the mirror and wonder, Have I changed? I try to remind myself that I’m still the same woman, but it’s hard not to feel like I’ve lost a part of myself along the way.

Sometimes, I just want a little reminder that I’ve still got it—that I’m still attractive, still desirable, still me. I don’t need constant attention or grand gestures. Just something simple—a kind word, a glance, a moment that makes me feel like I matter again. Because deep down, I know I’m still here. I just need to feel seen again, not only by others but by myself.