“Single is not a status; it’s a mindset of strength, self-worth, and knowing you deserve the best.” These words have become a mantra for me over the years. For so long, I used to see being single as a label, a placeholder for something better. It felt like a state of waiting, as if life couldn’t truly begin until I was in a relationship. But somewhere along the way, I realized that being single is far more than just a relationship status—it’s a mindset, a season of growth, and a testament to my strength.

Being single has taught me the power of self-worth. It’s not about settling for someone who simply fills the space but about holding out for the person who truly deserves my time, energy, and heart. In the past, I stayed in relationships where I felt small, where I compromised too much of myself for the sake of “us.” I let my worth be defined by someone else’s opinion, and it left me feeling empty. Walking away wasn’t easy, but it was the first step toward reclaiming my sense of self.

Now, I see this season of singleness as a gift. It’s an opportunity to invest in myself, to explore who I am and what I want without external distractions. It’s taught me to stand on my own two feet, to find joy in my own company, and to create a life I love—on my own terms.

More importantly, it’s a reminder that I am whole, just as I am. Being single doesn’t mean being incomplete or waiting for someone to complete me. It’s a choice to honor myself, to demand the best, and to refuse to settle for anything less than what I truly deserve. That’s not just a status—it’s empowerment.