Hi, I’m Michelle. I’m 50 years old, and I’ve been divorced for 8 years. Looking back, my divorce was one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made, but it was also one of the bravest. For a long time, I thought leaving my marriage meant I had failed. But over the years, I’ve realized something important: divorce isn’t giving up—it’s moving forward with courage.

When my marriage ended, I felt like I was standing at the edge of a cliff, unsure of what was ahead. After spending years in a relationship that no longer worked, I’d lost sight of who I was and what I wanted. It was scary to let go of the familiar, even if it wasn’t fulfilling, and step into the unknown.

The journey to rediscover myself wasn’t easy. At first, I struggled with feelings of guilt and shame. I wondered if I should have tried harder or sacrificed more. But eventually, I realized that staying in an unhappy marriage wouldn’t have been fair to me—or to my ex-husband. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do is let go.

Over these past 8 years, I’ve worked to redefine my goals and create a life that truly feels like mine. I went back to school and started a career I love. I’ve reconnected with friends I lost touch with during my marriage and even discovered new hobbies, like yoga and photography. Most importantly, I’ve found joy and purpose in being present for my kids while also carving out time to nurture myself.

Divorce doesn’t mean the end of happiness. It’s a chance to rebuild, to grow, and to create a life filled with meaning and love—on your own terms. I’m living proof that starting over at 50 isn’t just possible; it can be empowering.