Hi. I don’t even know where to start, but I’ve been feeling a little lost in my marriage lately. It’s like the connection that once felt so strong between us has started to weaken over time. The little things that used to make me feel special—compliments, small gestures, even just a simple acknowledgment of my efforts—seem to have disappeared.

I never thought I’d find myself in this place, questioning my own worth and attractiveness. My husband and I used to have such a strong bond, full of passion and appreciation for one another. But now, it feels like we’ve fallen into a routine where I’m no longer seen the way I used to be. Sometimes I wonder if he even notices me anymore.

It’s not about needing grand gestures or constant attention; it’s about feeling valued. I work hard to keep things together, whether it’s taking care of our home, managing responsibilities, or even putting in effort to look good. But when that effort goes unnoticed, it leaves me feeling invisible, like I’m just fading into the background of his life.

I know I shouldn’t rely on others for validation, but right now, I just need a little reminder that I’m still attractive, still worth noticing. Maybe it’s selfish, but I miss the feeling of being desired and admired. I want to feel that spark again—not just in my marriage, but within myself. Can you remind me that I still have it in me? That I’m still enough?