I’m still single at 38, and lately, I can’t help but wonder—Is it harder to find true love as you get older? I’ve had relationships in the past, some of them meaningful, but none of them lasted. As time passes, it feels like the pool of potential partners keeps shrinking. Most of my friends are either married, in long-term relationships, or have already started families. Meanwhile, I’m still navigating the dating world, trying to figure out what I want and what I need from a partner.

When I was younger, I imagined that by this age, I’d be in a stable, committed relationship, maybe even married, with a life partner to share everything with. But now, I find myself questioning what went wrong or why I haven’t found that person yet. I’m not necessarily looking for a fairy-tale romance, but I do crave a genuine connection, someone who gets me, who understands what I bring to the table and is willing to invest in something real.

It’s tough because, in some ways, it feels like there’s more pressure now. I’m more aware of my own needs and desires, but I’m also juggling the fear that time is running out. It’s not that I haven’t met people, but the connections don’t always seem to go beyond the surface. Maybe I’ve become more selective as I’ve gotten older, or maybe it’s just harder to find someone who shares the same values and goals.

I sometimes wonder if there’s something wrong with me or if I’ve missed my chance at love. But I know deep down that I haven’t given up, and I don’t want to settle for anything less than what I deserve. I just hope that true love is still out there, even if it feels more elusive now.