At 52, I’m still single, and I often find myself asking if it’s more challenging to find real love at this stage of life. I’ve had relationships in the past, some that were meaningful for a time, but none that lasted. Over the years, I’ve become more aware of what I want and need in a partner, but at the same time, I can’t help but feel like finding someone who matches me is becoming increasingly difficult.

The dating landscape has changed so much since I was younger. It feels like everyone is either married, already in long-term relationships, or simply not looking for something serious. I’ve tried online dating, met people through friends, and put myself out there, but the connections that I make often don’t seem to go anywhere. The reality is that dating when you’re older comes with its own set of challenges. People my age have lived through a lot, have busy lives, and often bring more baggage or complicated histories to the table. It can be hard to find someone who’s ready to build something new when they’re carrying so much from their past.

I’ve also noticed that I’m pickier now, which I think is a good thing. I’ve grown more comfortable with myself, and I know what I want out of a relationship. But that can make it harder to find someone who aligns with those desires. I’m not just looking for a companion anymore; I want someone who truly values the same things I do—honesty, respect, shared goals. I know I’m not going to settle for just anyone.

There are times when I wonder if I’ve missed my chance at true love or if it’s just not in the cards for me anymore. I’m not looking for a fairy tale, but I do want something real, something lasting. Sometimes, the thought of spending the rest of my life alone can feel daunting, but then I remind myself that I deserve a love that matches what I’ve built for myself. Maybe it’s taking longer than I expected, but I still believe that it’s possible, even at 52. True love may not come in the way I imagined, but I’m hopeful it’s still out there waiting for me.