I recently bought myself a chic little suit that’s bold, daring, and just a little bit on the edge of provocative. It’s one of those pieces that you slip into and immediately feel different—more powerful, more confident, almost like you can take on the world. The fabric hugs in all the right places, the cut is perfect, and the colors pop. It’s one of those outfits that can’t help but make a statement, and I love that about it.

Of course, my husband raised an eyebrow when he saw it. He couldn’t help but comment that it’s “a bit much for someone my age,” and while I understand his concern, I couldn’t disagree less. Sure, it’s bold, but doesn’t that make it fun? Doesn’t it remind me of a time when I didn’t worry so much about what others thought and simply dressed to feel my best? He’s always been more conservative in his tastes, and that’s okay—but I’m not willing to stifle my own sense of self-expression.

I’ve learned over the years that it’s important to feel good in my skin, to wear what makes me feel confident and alive. That’s why I don’t wear the suit every day, but when I do, it’s for special occasions. Whether it’s a romantic night out with my husband when I want to feel exciting and new again, or meeting someone who appreciates my style and confidence, it’s my way of reminding myself that I’m still vibrant, still full of life, and still someone who loves to have fun with fashion.

It’s not about seeking approval or validation—it’s about embracing the woman I’ve become, confident in who I am and unafraid to show it. That little suit might be daring, but it’s a reminder that we should always make space for what makes us feel our best.