I’m Linda, 57 years old, and I’ve been single for the last 3 years. It’s hard to believe it’s been that long, but when I look back, I see how far I’ve come. Divorce was a difficult decision, one that I never thought I’d have to make. I spent so many years in a marriage where I lost sight of who I was, caught up in the routine, the expectations, and the comfort of familiarity. But deep down, I knew something was missing, and I realized that if I didn’t make a change, I would lose myself completely.

Divorce isn’t the end; it’s the beginning of a new chapter. At first, it felt like my world was falling apart, and the uncertainty of being single again was overwhelming. But now, looking back, I see it as one of the best decisions I ever made. It was a painful process, but it gave me the opportunity to rediscover who I am. I could take a step back and reevaluate everything—from the small things like my hobbies and passions, to the bigger things like what I want in my future and how I want to live my life.

This time has been a journey of self-reflection, and it’s been liberating. I’ve learned to be comfortable in my own company, to enjoy the quiet moments and the freedom to make choices that are just for me. I’ve uncovered desires I never even knew I had. I want to travel more, to explore new places and experiences that I’ve put off for years. I’m starting to realize that my happiness is in my hands, and it’s not dependent on anyone else.

I’ve also learned the importance of building a life that aligns with my values. I’m no longer living according to someone else’s expectations. I’m learning to embrace my authenticity, to focus on what truly matters to me, whether that’s my career, my friends, or my own personal growth. I’m learning that happiness is a journey, not a destination, and that it’s okay to take my time to figure out what brings me joy.

Being single has allowed me to reclaim my power and make decisions that are in my best interest. It hasn’t been easy, but it’s been worth it. I’m starting to feel more confident, more connected to myself, and more excited about what the future holds. Divorce wasn’t the end of my story—it was the beginning of a new and better chapter. And I’m ready to write the rest of it on my own terms.