Hi! I’ve been feeling a little underappreciated in my marriage lately, and it’s made me wonder if I still have that spark. It’s hard to admit, but over the past few months, something has shifted between us. We used to laugh until our stomachs hurt, share long conversations late into the night, and sneak glances across the room that made my heart race. But now, it feels like we’re stuck on autopilot—passing each other like strangers, barely acknowledging the connection we once had.

I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault entirely. Life gets busy, and maybe we’ve both let the little things slip. But it’s left me feeling invisible, like I’m just part of the furniture in his world. I miss being seen. I miss feeling desired. And honestly, I miss feeling like myself—the confident, radiant woman I know is still in here somewhere.

It’s made me wonder: Am I still beautiful? Still captivating? Have I lost the spark that once made him, and others, look at me with admiration? Or is it all in my head?

I know the answer shouldn’t come solely from someone else, but I’d be lying if I said I didn’t crave a reminder. Sometimes, we need a mirror held up to show us what we’ve forgotten about ourselves. Could you be that mirror? Could you help me remember that I’ve still got it—that I’m still vibrant, beautiful, and worth every ounce of appreciation I once took for granted?