I’m Linda, 40 years old, and I’m not in a hurry to change my relationship status. I’ve been single for a while now, and at first, I questioned if I was doing something wrong. Society often paints a picture of a timeline—find someone, settle down, start a family. But I’ve learned that those timelines don’t fit my journey, and I’m okay with that.

Over the years, I’ve grown into a woman who knows exactly who she is and what she wants. I’ve built a fulfilling life, and I’m proud of the person I’ve become. My career is something I’m passionate about, and I’ve surrounded myself with friends who lift me up and support me. I’ve come to realize that a great partner should add value to my life—not take away from it.

It’s not that I’m against relationships. On the contrary, I believe in love deeply, but I’ve learned not to settle for anything less than what enhances the life I’ve worked hard to create. I’m not interested in finding someone to simply “fill the space” or chase after fleeting moments of companionship. I want a partner who respects my individuality, supports my goals, and challenges me to be the best version of myself.

I’m in no rush. I don’t need to prove anything to anyone. I trust that when the right person comes along, we will build something meaningful and lasting. Until then, I’m content. The life I’ve cultivated is full, and I know that a relationship should complement it, not disrupt the balance I’ve found within myself.