I am sorry but this question infuriates me. What type of self-respecting person would do this to their husband and an innocent child? A child has a right to know who his or her “real” father is.
This exact situation happened to my brother. His high school sweetheart got pregnant. She told my brother that it was his child. He didn’t think twice about it. He quickly married her. In his eyes it was the noble thing to do. My brother went on to have eight more children by her, a total of nine. Fast forward eighteen years, one of his kids was diagnosed with Leukemia and needed a bone marrow transplant. The doctor needed to test all of the children to see who was the best match for my nephew.
It was during this time that my brother’s wife “suddenly” became convicted (Sarcasm) about the dark secret that she had carried all of those years. She told my brother that his firstborn child, his daughter, was in fact not his. My brother’s wife only told my brother because she knew that the test was going to expose her for the “whore” that she is. My brother was devastated to say the least. He cried so hard. The betrayal nearly destroyed him. However, he tried to forgive her and put it behind him, but it haunted him.
To add insult to injury, my brother’s wife confided in her daughter that my brother is not her biological father. The pain was so overwhelming to her that she went down a path of self-destruction. My beautiful niece started using drugs and prostituting. Prior to receiving the news she was an honor student. My niece was in her first year of college studying to be a nurse. However, she could not accept that she had a different father than her siblings. She couldn’t accept that the only father who had been in her life since birth was not her biological father. My niece had a huge identity crisis. In my brother’s defense he told my niece that he loves her and regardless of the difference in DNA results she will “always” be his daughter.
Luckily, the universe intervened and my brother divorced that no good ex-wife of his. After all, she is a selfish bitch who ruined not just one life, but “many” lives. The fact that any woman would even think that allowing their husband to raise a child that is not his without his knowledge is reprehensible. Some women are not marriage material. You don’t deserve to have a husband or a child. You are a selfish individual. Just remember that KARMA is a bitch.