It is proven that human nature can not be changed, sometimes we change ourselves when needed, according to the situation otherwise, we usually do things according to our nature. Likewise, cheating is also in some people’s nature.

First of all, I would like to ask you how your marriage life is. One major reason for cheating is that sex is one of the main priority for men in our society and apart from that we have forgotten our values and morals. Men can easily find a lot of chances to find other women even when they have their own families. Usually, a wife may get very busy with the kids or have a huge amount of responsibilities to fulfill related to the family, and of course, in this case, she would not be able to sleep with him every night, like she would have in the earlier years of marriage. A lot of times, in this case men start looking for a younger woman, who can fulfill all his desires and also make him feel young again.

And if you have always been a good wife who has been honest and loyal to him and loved him as well and yet, with all these blessings, he still cheated on you, that means that he should not live with you. I believe that usually once a person who cheats, would cheat on you again and again. I also believe that we only get one life and we will not get it again and the happiness which has been given to us from God, we deserve to enjoy that and everything that we are blessed with. Please do not break your heart again and again and also don’t waste your time in stalking him or investigating about him or even fighting with him and making your life hell, in fact not only yours but your kid’s as well.

Go ahead and enjoy your life, achieve your goals, be positive, forget about your husband and move on. Like how I always say, that, if water is not able to move and is stopped in one place, it eventually becomes mud.
I am also available to talk to people who need encouragement and motivation. God is with us all.