I feel incredibly uncomfortable because my husband’s creepy best friend is staying with us, and I’m struggling to figure out how to handle it. From the moment he walked through the door, I knew this was going to be a problem. There’s something about him that sets me on edge—whether it’s his invasive questions, inappropriate jokes, or the way he stares just a little too long. It’s hard to pinpoint, but the unease is real.

At first, I tried to brush it off. After all, he’s my husband’s best friend, someone my husband clearly cares about. But as the days go by, I find myself avoiding common areas of the house just to escape his presence. He always seems to be there—sitting in the living room, lounging in the kitchen, or appearing suddenly wherever I am, like he’s intentionally trying to make me uncomfortable.

The most unsettling part is his behavior when my husband isn’t around. He makes sly comments that toe the line of being inappropriate and seems to delight in seeing me squirm. It’s as though he enjoys pushing boundaries, knowing I’ll stay silent to keep the peace.

I’ve tried talking to my husband about it, but he brushes off my concerns, saying his friend “means no harm.” Still, I can’t shake the feeling that something isn’t right. This is my home, and I deserve to feel safe in it. Now I’m left wondering: do I confront this head-on or find another way to protect my space?