Hi! Lately, my marriage has been lacking the affection and attention it once had, and it’s left me feeling a little lost. There was a time when my husband’s eyes would light up whenever he saw me, when compliments and small gestures of love felt natural and constant. But now, those moments feel like distant memories. The routine of life has taken over, and the spark we once shared has dimmed.

It’s made me start questioning myself. Am I still the woman who could make someone’s heart race? Do I still have that vibrant energy that used to make me feel unstoppable? I look at myself in the mirror and see the changes—some I love, some I’m learning to accept—but I wonder if others can still see the beauty I once believed I had.

I miss feeling desirable, not just in a physical sense but emotionally too. That feeling of being admired, of knowing someone values you for everything you are, has been hard to come by lately. It’s not about needing constant reassurance, but sometimes I just want to be reminded that I’m still me—vibrant, attractive, and worth noticing.

I know relationships go through phases, and I haven’t given up hope on us. But right now, I need something to remind me of my own worth. I need to rediscover the confidence I once carried so effortlessly, to know that I’m still someone who can light up a room and turn heads without even trying.