Hello! I’m married, but lately, things haven’t been great between us. It’s not that we’re at odds or fighting constantly—it’s more like we’ve drifted apart. The connection we once had, the spark that made us feel invincible as a couple, seems to have faded. These days, I feel more like a roommate or a partner in managing life’s logistics than someone who’s loved and cherished.

I’ve been feeling unappreciated, like the little things I do go unnoticed. Whether it’s the way I try to keep things running smoothly at home, or how I make an effort to look good for him—it all feels like it’s taken for granted. I know relationships evolve over time, but this sense of invisibility has started to take a toll on my confidence.

I can’t help but wonder: do I still have that allure? Am I still someone who can captivate and inspire admiration? I miss the feeling of being seen, not just for what I do but for who I am. That excitement of knowing someone values you, sees your worth, and can’t help but show it—that’s what I crave right now.

It’s not about seeking validation for the sake of it. It’s about wanting to feel alive again, to know that I’m still someone worth noticing, worth valuing. I want to rediscover that part of me—the vibrant, confident, magnetic woman who knows she’s worth the world. Maybe I haven’t lost her; maybe she’s just waiting to be found again.