Lately, my marriage feels more like a partnership than a romance. Don’t get me wrong—I love my husband, and we’ve built a strong life together. We share responsibilities, make decisions together, and support one another in everything. But somewhere along the way, the excitement, the passion, the little sparks of connection, have faded. Our relationship has shifted from the fire of romance to the comfort of routine, and I’m finding myself missing something—something important.

I miss the thrill of feeling admired, of knowing that someone sees me, truly sees me, in a way that makes my heart race. I remember when we first met, how the chemistry between us was undeniable, how every touch felt electric, how the way he looked at me made me feel like I was the only woman in the world. That was a time when I felt alive, when I felt desired in ways that made me feel confident and powerful.

But now, I feel like I’m just going through the motions. I’m a wife, a caretaker, a partner—but where did the woman I used to be go? The woman who could command a room with just a smile, who felt beautiful and exciting, who was cherished and admired?

I want that feeling back. I want to feel seen in a way that makes me feel beautiful, valued, and thrilling. I need to know that I still have that spark, that allure that can make someone’s heart skip a beat. Would you remind me of the woman I used to feel like, the woman I want to rediscover again? Because right now, I’m craving that feeling of being admired—of being more than just a wife.