Hey, I’ve been feeling a bit invisible in my marriage lately, and it’s starting to weigh on me in ways I didn’t expect. It’s not that I’m unhappy, but something feels… missing. The connection we used to share—the warmth, the laughter, the sense of being truly seen—seems to have faded into the background of daily life.

I used to feel so confident in myself, both as a partner and as a person. There was a time when I could walk into a room and feel like I owned it. Now, I catch myself wondering if anyone even notices me anymore—especially my husband. I know he cares in his own way, but the spark of appreciation, those little gestures that once made me feel special, seem to have disappeared.

I’ve started questioning myself more than I’d like to admit. Am I still attractive? Do I still have that glow that used to draw people in? Or have I simply become another piece of furniture in our shared life—familiar, but overlooked?

I don’t want to feel this way, and I’m not looking for someone else to fix it. What I need is to feel seen again, to be reminded that I’m still vibrant, still desirable, still worth it. Maybe this is about more than my marriage; maybe it’s about me finding my own spark again. Because deep down, I know I’ve still ‘got it’—I just need a little reminder to see it for myself.