I never thought I’d still be single at 38. Growing up, I always imagined my life unfolding differently—finding someone special in my 20s, building a life together, maybe starting a family. Yet here I am, watching the years pass while navigating the ever-changing world of dating, wondering why finding true love seems so incredibly hard.

It’s not like I haven’t tried. I’ve been on dating apps, joined social events, and even let my friends set me up on blind dates. Some connections felt promising at first, but they either fizzled out or revealed we weren’t as compatible as we thought. It’s disheartening, to say the least, especially when you’re surrounded by friends who seem to have it all figured out.

I’ve heard people say, “It’ll happen when you least expect it,” but I can’t help but question if that’s true. Is love still something that just happens, or has it become this elusive treasure in a world that moves too fast and prioritizes convenience over connection?

But despite the challenges, I’m not giving up. I know what I want—someone who sees me for who I am, someone I can grow with, laugh with, and trust. Until then, I’m focusing on loving myself, pursuing my passions, and living fully. I believe that true love is out there, even if it’s taking longer to find. After all, it’s not about rushing into something just to fill a void; it’s about waiting for a connection that’s truly worth it.