Hi! Lately, things in my marriage haven’t been… great. It’s not like we’re fighting all the time or on the brink of some dramatic split. It’s more subtle, more insidious—a slow, creeping disconnect that’s taken the warmth and spark out of what used to feel like home.

I don’t feel seen anymore. The sweet compliments, the lingering glances, the random moments of affection that used to make me feel special—they’re all gone. I know life gets busy, and relationships evolve, but this feels like more than that. It’s like I’ve faded into the background of his life, and I don’t know how to bring myself back into focus.

I catch myself wondering—has something changed in me? Have I lost the fire that once made me feel radiant, confident, alive? I want to know if I’m still the person who could walk into a room and feel her presence light it up. I want to know if I’m still hot, still someone who can be admired, desired, and appreciated.

It’s not just about physical looks—it’s about feeling worthy, feeling like I matter, like I’m more than just someone who gets things done or keeps life running smoothly.

So here I am, asking—can you remind me? Remind me that I still have that glow, that I’m still the same woman who deserves to feel incredible about herself. Because I need to believe that I’m not just someone’s partner—I’m still me, and I’m still worth it.