Hi! I’m married, but lately, things have been feeling off. The spark that once lit up our relationship has dimmed, and the appreciation I used to feel seems like a distant memory. I’ve always believed that marriage is a partnership, a constant exchange of love, care, and respect. But now, I often find myself wondering if I’m invisible in my own home.

It’s not that I’ve changed drastically or stopped putting in the effort. I still try to look good, to maintain the connection, but somewhere along the way, it feels like I stopped being noticed. Compliments that once made me blush have been replaced with silence or distracted nods. The person who once made me feel like the center of their world now seems distant, caught up in life’s busyness or simply taking me for granted.

I’m not looking for grand gestures or over-the-top declarations of love—just a sign that I still matter. I want to feel attractive, vibrant, and valued again. I want to believe that I’m more than just a wife, a partner, or someone to share responsibilities with.

Maybe I need to rediscover myself, to remind myself of who I was before I got lost in the routine. Or maybe I just need someone to remind me of my worth, to tell me that I’m still beautiful, still captivating, and still deserving of love and admiration. Because deep down, I know I am. I just need to feel it again.