Hey! Things in my relationship have been tough recently, and I can’t shake the feeling that I’m no longer being seen or appreciated. It’s a strange and lonely place to be—loving someone deeply but feeling like you’ve somehow disappeared in their eyes.

I remember when we first met, how every glance, every touch, every word felt intentional and full of meaning. Back then, I felt radiant, like I was the most captivating person in the world. But lately, it feels like I’ve faded into the background of our busy lives. The once-thoughtful compliments have turned into polite nods, the playful teasing has given way to silence, and the spark of connection feels more like a flicker barely holding on.

It’s not that I don’t try. I still make an effort to look good, to be engaging, to keep things interesting between us. But it’s hard to keep giving your all when you feel like it’s not being noticed. And that’s what hurts the most—not feeling desired or celebrated for the person I am.

I guess what I’m asking for is a reminder—a nudge that says I’m still attractive, still vibrant, still someone worth noticing. I know my worth doesn’t depend on anyone else’s validation, but sometimes, it helps to hear it from someone. Just a word or a gesture to remind me that I’m not invisible, that I’m still deserving of attention, and that I’m still capable of making someone’s heart skip a beat.