I’m married, but lately, it feels like my husband doesn’t see me anymore. The love and attention that once brought us so close now seem like distant memories. At one time, his glance alone made me feel beautiful, valued, and loved. Now, those moments of connection are rare, replaced by silence, indifference, or the monotony of routine.

I’ve tried to bridge the gap—initiating conversations, planning special evenings, even just sitting beside him in quiet moments, hoping he’ll reach out. But nothing seems to break through. It’s as though I’ve become invisible in his world, like the person I am no longer matters.

I can’t help but wonder if the problem is me. Did I change? Am I no longer the woman he fell in love with? I replay memories of us laughing, talking late into the night, sharing dreams and plans for the future. It’s hard not to compare those vibrant times to the emptiness I feel now. I find myself questioning my worth, wondering if I’ve fallen short as a wife or a partner.

It hurts to pour love into a space that no longer reflects it back. The emotional toll of being unseen has left me feeling lost, confused, and unsure of how to move forward. I don’t want to give up on us—I still love him deeply. But I don’t know how to keep fighting for someone who seems to have stopped noticing me. I’m stuck, yearning to feel visible and valued again.