I never expected to feel this way, but there’s something about the way my boss challenges me—both intellectually and emotionally—that has me questioning if I’m truly fulfilled in my marriage. It’s not something I can easily admit, even to myself, but the feeling is undeniable.

My boss has this presence that commands attention, not because he demands it, but because he earns it. He challenges my ideas, pushes me to think bigger, and never lets me settle for less than I’m capable of. In his office, during our discussions, I feel seen in a way that’s hard to explain. It’s not just about work—it’s the way he listens, engages, and makes me feel like my thoughts matter.

It’s a stark contrast to what I’ve been feeling at home. My marriage is steady and comfortable, but sometimes comfort can feel like complacency. My husband is a good man, but the excitement, the deep conversations, and the spark that once defined our relationship seem to have faded. I don’t blame him entirely—it’s life, routine, and years of knowing each other so well that we’ve stopped asking, What’s next?

Now, I find myself wondering: Is it wrong to crave more? Am I being ungrateful, or is this my heart telling me that something’s missing? I don’t want to hurt anyone, least of all my husband, but the emotions stirred by my boss leave me feeling alive and confused all at once.

It’s not about him, not entirely. It’s about me—about what I need, what I’ve lost, and whether I’m brave enough to find it again.