My husband has been so uninterested in me lately. It’s as if I’ve become invisible in my own marriage. He no longer notices the little things—like when I wear his favorite perfume or dress up for him. His compliments, once so frequent and heartfelt, have been replaced with silence. Conversations feel more like transactions, brief exchanges about schedules or responsibilities, devoid of warmth or depth.

I can’t help but feel like I’m not worth his time or affection anymore. I find myself replaying moments in my mind, searching for where things might have gone wrong. Did I say something that pushed him away? Have I changed in a way he no longer finds appealing? I’ve started blaming myself for the growing distance between us, even though I know deep down that a relationship takes effort from both sides.

I miss the days when we used to stay up late, talking about our dreams and sharing secrets. I miss his laughter, his touch, and the way he used to make me feel like I was the center of his world. Now, I feel like a background character in his life, someone he sees out of habit but no longer truly looks at.

I don’t know how to fix this. I want to reach out to him, to tell him how much it hurts, but I’m scared of what he might say. What if I’m the only one still holding on? What if his indifference means he’s already let go?