It feels like my husband has lost all interest in me, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. He used to light up when I walked into the room, and his attention always made me feel special, like I was the most important person in his life. Now, his gaze passes over me as if I’m not even there, and the silence between us feels heavier with each passing day.

I’ve been trying to figure out where I went wrong. Have I changed too much over the years? Maybe I’ve let myself go in ways he notices but doesn’t say. Or perhaps I’ve failed to give him something he needs. These thoughts swirl in my mind, keeping me awake at night, making me second-guess everything about myself. I find myself nitpicking every little detail—how I dress, how I talk, even how I laugh.

I miss the days when he used to compliment me out of the blue or reach for my hand just because he wanted to feel close. Now, the intimacy we once shared feels like a distant memory, replaced by routines and obligations.

I’ve tried to bring it back, planning date nights, asking him about his day, or simply trying to engage him in a conversation that goes beyond small talk. But his responses are brief and distant, leaving me feeling more alone than ever.

I’m starting to wonder if I’m not good enough for him anymore. It’s a painful thought, but it’s becoming harder to ignore. How do you hold on to someone who no longer seems to see you?