My husband is 67 years old, a multimillionaire businessman whose life revolves around endless meetings, tight schedules, and the demands of running a vast empire. His work ethic and dedication to his success are some of the things I’ve always admired about him. But with that success comes sacrifice—his time, his presence, and, often, his ability to meet my emotional and physical needs.
Over the years, he became acutely aware of this imbalance. Instead of ignoring it or letting it strain our relationship, he approached the issue with surprising openness. He suggested something unconventional—an arrangement where, when he’s unable to be there for me, other men would visit me at our home. It was shocking at first, but his reasoning was thoughtful and practical. He wanted me to feel fulfilled, even if he couldn’t always be the one to do so.
What makes this arrangement even more unusual is his request for me to record these moments. He asks me to share the videos with him later, saying it allows him to feel connected to me in a way that transcends physical distance. At first, I hesitated, unsure of how I felt about this dynamic. But as time went on, I realized how deeply it reflected his love for me. He wasn’t just giving me freedom—he was embracing it and finding a way to remain a part of it.
Strangely enough, this unique understanding has strengthened our marriage. It’s built on trust, honesty, and a shared commitment to each other’s happiness, even if it doesn’t fit conventional norms. In its own way, this arrangement has brought us closer than ever before.
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