About once or twice a month I have a girls night out with some friends. My husband stays home with the kids. I’ve got a habit of drinking pretty heavily, and will usually end up hooking up with a guy before going back home. My friends know how I get when I drink, because it’s been like this since I’ve known them which is longer than I’ve been married. They like to hear the details and live vicariously through what I do. So it all works out in my favor with them covering for me so that hubby never suspects anything.