My husband’s lack of interest in me lately has been hard to ignore. The man who once looked at me with such love and admiration now seems distant, almost indifferent. It’s as though I’ve become a part of the background of his life, blending into the routine, no longer someone who sparks his attention or excitement.

I’ve tried to understand why—tried to tell myself it’s stress, work, or just life getting in the way. But deep down, it feels more personal. When he walks through the door, his eyes don’t light up the way they used to. He no longer notices the little things I do, like when I try to dress up or make his favorite dinner. The silence between us feels louder with each passing day, and his indifference stings more than I care to admit.

I can’t help but internalize it. Has something about me changed? Am I no longer enough to capture his attention? I find myself overthinking every detail—how I look, how I speak, even how I approach him. It’s exhausting, this constant questioning of my own worth.

I’ve tried to talk to him about it, but he brushes it off, saying everything is fine. Yet, his actions don’t align with those words. His lack of engagement makes me feel small, unimportant, and invisible in the relationship.

I don’t want to feel this way. I just want to feel seen, heard, and loved again. But right now, I feel like I’m fading away in his eyes, and it’s breaking my heart.