Lately, it feels like my husband has lost interest in me. The warmth and connection we once shared seem to have been replaced by distance and silence. We live under the same roof, yet I feel like a stranger in his life. I keep wondering if I’m the problem—if I’ve done something to push him away—or if there’s something more I could do to bring us closer.

I’ve started questioning everything about myself: Am I still attractive to him? Do I talk too much, or not enough? Am I too needy, or not giving him enough space? These thoughts circle in my mind, making me feel inadequate and unsure of where I stand.

I’ve tried to rekindle the spark—planning special evenings, asking about his day, and even being more affectionate—but his responses are lukewarm, as if he’s not fully there. It’s painful because I miss the way he used to look at me, like I was the center of his world. Now, it feels like I’m competing with distractions I can’t see or name.

Part of me wants to confront him and pour out all my fears, but I’m terrified of what he might say. What if he confirms my worst fears? What if I’m not the woman he wants anymore?

I don’t know what’s changed between us, but I want to fix it. I just don’t know where to start—or if he even wants me to try.