Divorce didn’t break me; it reminded me of my strength. There was a time when I thought my world would shatter without him, that the life we built together was the foundation of my existence. But when it all came crashing down, I realized something—I was never truly standing on solid ground. I had been walking on eggshells, sacrificing my happiness for the illusion of stability.
The day I walked away, I wasn’t just leaving a marriage; I was leaving behind the version of myself that settled for less than she deserved. The version that made excuses for his indifference, that ignored her own needs, that believed love meant shrinking herself to fit someone else’s expectations.
I am not starting over—I am starting fresh. There’s a difference. Starting over sounds like a loss, like erasing everything and beginning from nothing. But I am not nothing. I am a woman who has lived, loved, learned, and grown. I carry wisdom now, strength I never knew I had, and a heart that, despite the pain, still beats with hope.
Every morning, I wake up with the freedom to create the life I want, on my terms. My happiness is no longer dependent on someone else’s affection or approval. I don’t regret my past, but I refuse to let it define me.
This is my fresh start, and I am walking into it with my head held high.