I feel invisible in my marriage—my husband hardly notices me anymore. It’s making me wonder if I’m still enough for him.
There was a time when I felt like the center of his world. His eyes would search for me in a crowded room, his touch was filled with warmth, and his words reassured me that I was loved. But now, I feel like a shadow in my own home, moving through our shared life unnoticed.
Mornings used to start with a kiss, a lingering touch, or a playful comment. Now, they begin with silence. He scrolls through his phone, drinks his coffee, and walks out the door without so much as a glance in my direction. In the evenings, he comes home, exhausted and distracted. He barely asks about my day, and when I try to start a conversation, I feel like I’m talking to a wall.
I’ve tried everything—new outfits, special dinners, affectionate gestures—but nothing seems to make a difference. The distance between us grows, and with it, my doubts. Is he falling out of love with me? Has he found excitement elsewhere? Or am I simply not enough anymore?
I don’t want to believe that love can fade so easily, but the loneliness is unbearable. I feel like I’m grasping at something that’s slipping through my fingers, and worst of all, I don’t know if he even notices.