I never thought I would find myself in this situation. Marriage is supposed to be built on trust, love, and mutual respect, but now, everything I believed in has been shattered. My husband cheated on me. That alone is painful enough, but what’s even worse is that instead of taking responsibility for his actions, he has turned the blame on me.

At first, I was in shock. I confronted him, expecting guilt, maybe even an apology, but instead, I got excuses. He told me I was too busy, too distant, too focused on work, or that I had changed over the years. He twisted everything, making it seem like his betrayal was somehow my fault. I found myself questioning my actions, wondering if I had truly pushed him away. But deep down, I know that no excuse justifies infidelity.

I feel lost, angry, and heartbroken. How do I even begin to process this? Do I fight for my marriage, or do I walk away from someone who refuses to take accountability? The worst part is, I still love him, and that makes it all so much harder.

Right now, I need clarity. I need to find the strength to see this for what it is—his mistake, not mine. If he refuses to take responsibility, how can I ever trust him again? The question remains: Do I stay and fight for a man who betrayed me, or do I start fighting for myself?