After the child is born, I will separate from my husband. I have decided this after much suffering because – Hello, I am Fatmirja, please post this as soon as possible because I really need advice since I no longer have the freedom to speak. Take note of the intimate number 1 after you finish reading. Anyway, starting my story, I am from Kosovo but have lived abroad for years. I got married a year ago to a teacher or as we call them. Well, I got married, but I am the type who listens more than I speak, and every time I would listen and speak little. Whenever the question arose about what’s wrong, I would say nothing, I’m fine, but why don’t you speak? I would say because I’m listening to the topic you’re talking about; I don’t know the people to comment on it. That’s how fights would start. Well, that day passed, and I always hoped things would get better. Our marriage continued with ups and downs, but during this time, from our marriage until today, I have heard so many offensive words like I’ve never heard in my entire life. I’ve endured for months and had no one to talk to because my parents trust him so much that sometimes when I start to speak, they don’t believe a word I say. Believe me, I don’t remember a moment when if I was a bit serious in my expression, I didn’t receive an offense from him. I knew there was no way out, and I decided again to stay in this place. Now, I am pregnant and I haven’t seen anyone treat a pregnant woman in the worst possible way, considering that pregnant women have their own problems. I truly loved him endlessly and endured everything, not just words but even more. But now, I have decided that I can’t endure this life anymore. One year of suffering, insults, and everything bad has become too much for me. I have decided that I want to leave this man and this place. I will raise the child alone if God has given it to me as a gift; I will devote my life to this. Now judge me, but believe me, I no longer have the strength to endure anymore. Sorry for the long story, I hope to receive some advice.
After the child is born, I will separate from my husband. I have decided this after much suffering because – Hello, I am Angela, please post this as soon as possible because I really need advice since I no longer have the freedom to speak. Take note of the intimate number 1 after you finish reading. Anyway, starting my story, I am from Italy but have lived abroad for years. I got married a year ago to a teacher or as we call them. Well, I got married, but I am the type who listens more than I speak, and every time I would listen and speak little. Whenever the question arose about what’s wrong, I would say nothing, I’m fine, but why don’t you speak? I would say because I’m listening to the topic you’re talking about; I don’t know the people to comment on it. That’s how fights would start. Well, that day passed, and I always hoped things would get better. Our marriage continued with ups and downs, but during this time, from our marriage until today, I have heard so many offensive words like I’ve never heard in my entire life. I’ve endured for months and had no one to talk to because my parents trust him so much that sometimes when I start to speak, they don’t believe a word I say. Believe me, I don’t remember a moment when if I was a bit serious in my expression, I didn’t receive an offense from him. I knew there was no way out, and I decided again to stay in this place. Now, I am pregnant and I haven’t seen anyone treat a pregnant woman in the worst possible way, considering that pregnant women have their own problems. I truly loved him endlessly and endured everything, not just words but even more. But now, I have decided that I can’t endure this life anymore. One year of suffering, insults, and everything bad has become too much for me. I have decided that I want to leave this man and this place. I will raise the child alone if God has given it to me as a gift; I will devote my life to this. Now judge me, but believe me, I no longer have the strength to endure anymore. Sorry for the long story, I hope to receive some advice.