“I told him to choose between his wife and me. I called his wife and told her that I am with her husband and… -Hello! I wanted to share with you a story of mine that is consuming my thoughts. I can never believe that my life has turned out this way, as I am unable to find a solution to anything. All I can do is cry and cry, and that’s all I do. I have no strength left for anything else. Two years ago, I had a personal family issue, and I didn’t know where I was. By chance, I met someone who begged me for a coffee. After a long time, I had coffee and it felt like someone was protecting me, giving me courage, and staying close to me.”
Every day he wrote to me about how I was, I had never seen that person with such eyes, with which I could create something, or feel, or establish a connection. Time passed, feelings arose, but I was grounded even though my heart couldn’t be stopped. He fell in love despite having a family. Every day I pushed him away crying, telling him to go home because I couldn’t take it anymore and I was going crazy. I only saw him crying saying he couldn’t do it anymore, he couldn’t stay without me, he had fallen in love. I made up all kinds of things and invented stories to push him away but it was impossible!
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Over a year and a half, even though I loved him so much, I left crying, my mind didn’t want to be with him. I was conscious and terribly wrong, his words were “I can’t speak prematurely because I will come out as a fool but know that I love you very much and want to be with you all my life!” For a year and a half, he didn’t let me meet anyone or have coffee with anyone. I felt like I was going crazy and to push him away I needed to seek help knowing it would hurt but it would end with pain. That night a debate ensued and I told him, “listen, I will call your wife and leave me alone or I will kill myself.” He continued not caring about what I said, “go ahead.” The next day I call her and ask her, “do you know who your husband is and where he is? Because he is stalking me because he loves you and keeps you there. I can’t find peace from him,” she said okay I will handle it. I don’t know what I did out of anger I didn’t understand but I took the phone. She was screaming, crying endlessly wanting her daughter at home, bring my daughter home! She made a scandal telling my family members she wants her daughter because your child drove my wife away. A terrible situation! She told me after May 1st she would only take her because she is 8 years old but swore she hadn’t touched her for a year and a half, every day because of the daughter. She took her and came to meet me but every day was arguments and fights, I wanted my life, my children, he wouldn’t accept the fact of me getting engaged or married, he was going mad.
“We will have children,” he said when the time comes, “I would be only his!” A guy got to know me through messages and I told him in March it’s 2 years together, either keep her or me, I will continue. That drove him mad! Why had I had coffee with him, why had I betrayed him? That night he broke down. He asked where he is, how he is, and I told him, he sent a request on Instagram and wrote to him. I could never understand him, never. The messages that night were caught by his wife and she left the house again for almost 2 months! He told me he’s not taking me back, he has hired a lawyer, fought and argued with me for having coffee with someone else, and endlessly threatened.
“You destroyed me, I will destroy you!” The filthiest words, endless insults! That day the number was blocked. I thought he was upset because he was crying and I got worried! I write to him on WhatsApp at night. In the morning, he calls me with screams on the other side. I said I was sleeping, he said, “if we are separated why do you write to me?” I got worried and said, “when did we break up?” The call was on speaker and his wife was listening. I was trembling and shaking all over from disappointment, for a moment I thought my heart stopped! I couldn’t believe it and saw myself in the mirror, how can a person hurt me like this when he swears on his only daughter that I was his love! How is it possible?!
Shortly after, his mother calls me saying, “what do you want now, my son has his wife and star, it’s over with you, he fooled your mind for 2 years!” I still can’t believe I kept my sanity, how can a mother be like this? I never asked him to leave her, never said it’s her or me, at least leave me because you are disgracing me. I heard what he said, “your time is up, I have a wife!” No one in my family was left without being told and written on social media that I forcefully want a husband and am ruining a family. I have nothing left but to kill myself because I can’t take revenge, it hurts my heart! I know how that evil man deserves to be unmasked but still, I will be the one who loses. Please give me some advice because I am going through a depressive state. Thank you!
