My husband (29M) and I (26 F) has been knowing for quite some years when we were both at uni. We were married last year.

I have posted about it around 2-3 months ago when I was still considering whether or not to cheat on my hubby who has troubles getting hard. Our sex life has been lame even with pills.

I eventually, for the first time, had banged a flatmate of mine (21 M) at the student hall I occasionally stay. I first felt very bad at first with guilt and fear but there came the second time, third time and so on. I fell for it. It has been fun and we have been having great sex. We explored many things including threesomes with a friend of his (not to justify myself but he is rather good-looking).

In early April, hubby had a trip to visit his family in Asia, which was a trip I planned to go with him. cancelled the trip by lying about my lab work and write-up, so that I could spend some time alone with my APs (took effort to act like it is so disappointing).

I have been having a cheating life style for quite a while and it is not as bad and scary as I thought at first. My sex relationship with my husband has improved. I start to feel the joy from lame sex with him. Seeing hubby getting hard just to spurt his semen out from a handjob can be a fun event now (i would be absolutely frustrated before).He is even happy that he feel much less pressure from sex.